Post by elana on Mar 5, 2007 22:14:05 GMT -5
four days ago, as you know, XABF co worker came over and worked on my computer. Subject of XABF came up and we compared notes and my oh my we both looked at each other appalled by the lies that had been told to both of us by this guy.
The biggest one for me that, in addition to everything else.. the walking out, leaving me with bills, drugs etc. was that the guy was likely cheating on me for a long time.. maybe before he ever moved in with me. Those lies were out in the open..
Then to have him call me the mnext day and THREATEN me and continue to lie.. well, that was enough of enough of enough....
I took the following actions:
Called the State Police and told them about his continual DUI status, he grow operation and his dealing. They asked for detailed info and I gave it to them. I told them about the threat and they said they would do something about that if I asked. i told them he was told to leave me alone and if he did not, I would file a temporarly restraining order.
I sent a letter to his boss stating the nature of the threat against this coworker and that I had notified the State Police of the threat.
I notified the DMV he had moved (supposed to give them a street addy within 30 ddays of moving and he is still using mine).
I found a bill laying on the counter from the IRS asking for the back taxesd he owes from 2000 and I put all that back in the envelope to them along with one of his old pay stubs (so the know where he works and the HR company that does the payroll), an old bank statement, Make and model of his car and license plate #, info on the estate he has partially inherited with information on the executor and the will..
I called up Sam's Club and revoked his card (he goes there oftn so that will be funny.. he will get told at the Check out in front of every one). I called up AAA and revoked his card.
And, while pehaps revenge is wrong and vengeful acts do not speak recovery, I know that all this stuff has the potential to make his life hell.
Well, MY life is hell waiting on the HIV testing.. I got one and it was negative but.. and hislies made me feel so bad for him and for us for weeks..
Well, guess I am over feeling bad. I feel so GOOD having done these things. I expect that is not recovery and not good, but I do not believe I have ever felt so victimized or violated in my life. I am not laying here and weeping for this Bat Guano... and if wreak a bit of havoc on him in the process, I really do not care.
At least he sent me my Uncle's antiqu light meter for photography. I am so mad I am not even going to thank him.
To heck with him. He can ride old cloven foots pitchfork straight to h***
This time he picked the WRONG girl to lie to and cheat on.
and NOW, only NOW can I feel free to live forward.
I have to say, I have no regrets and if I am wrong, oh well. If never though being wrong could feel so great.
The biggest one for me that, in addition to everything else.. the walking out, leaving me with bills, drugs etc. was that the guy was likely cheating on me for a long time.. maybe before he ever moved in with me. Those lies were out in the open..
Then to have him call me the mnext day and THREATEN me and continue to lie.. well, that was enough of enough of enough....
I took the following actions:
Called the State Police and told them about his continual DUI status, he grow operation and his dealing. They asked for detailed info and I gave it to them. I told them about the threat and they said they would do something about that if I asked. i told them he was told to leave me alone and if he did not, I would file a temporarly restraining order.
I sent a letter to his boss stating the nature of the threat against this coworker and that I had notified the State Police of the threat.
I notified the DMV he had moved (supposed to give them a street addy within 30 ddays of moving and he is still using mine).
I found a bill laying on the counter from the IRS asking for the back taxesd he owes from 2000 and I put all that back in the envelope to them along with one of his old pay stubs (so the know where he works and the HR company that does the payroll), an old bank statement, Make and model of his car and license plate #, info on the estate he has partially inherited with information on the executor and the will..
I called up Sam's Club and revoked his card (he goes there oftn so that will be funny.. he will get told at the Check out in front of every one). I called up AAA and revoked his card.
And, while pehaps revenge is wrong and vengeful acts do not speak recovery, I know that all this stuff has the potential to make his life hell.
Well, MY life is hell waiting on the HIV testing.. I got one and it was negative but.. and hislies made me feel so bad for him and for us for weeks..
Well, guess I am over feeling bad. I feel so GOOD having done these things. I expect that is not recovery and not good, but I do not believe I have ever felt so victimized or violated in my life. I am not laying here and weeping for this Bat Guano... and if wreak a bit of havoc on him in the process, I really do not care.
At least he sent me my Uncle's antiqu light meter for photography. I am so mad I am not even going to thank him.
To heck with him. He can ride old cloven foots pitchfork straight to h***
This time he picked the WRONG girl to lie to and cheat on.
and NOW, only NOW can I feel free to live forward.
I have to say, I have no regrets and if I am wrong, oh well. If never though being wrong could feel so great.
Hello, my friends! 
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